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Use case

Confirm workshop attendance before ordering materials

You are organising a workshop and need to order materials for each participant. You need everyone who plans to attend to confirm their attendance so you know exactly how many sets to purchase.

Use one Nexy thread for one agreement: I will confirm whether I am attending the workshop by Friday. The other person receives a message in the chat they already use, without installing anything or creating an account; reminders stop for a task that is already done.

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What it looks like

An example of people making one clear agreement and confirming when it is done.

How to do it

  1. Start one Nexy thread for the agreement. Send a message to every expected participant asking them to confirm attendance by a specific day, explaining that you need a firm headcount before ordering materials.
  2. Explain in your message how many materials you will order per person and the deadline for confirmation, so people understand why the cut-off matters. The other person receives a message in the chat they already use and needs no new account.
  3. As each person confirms, keep a running count and note who has not yet replied so you can follow up if needed.
  4. Once everyone has confirmed or your deadline arrives, add up the total number of attendees and place the materials order based on that final count. A reminder is most useful while you could still act, usually the evening before.
  5. After ordering, send one message to the whole group confirming how many people are expected and that materials have been ordered, so no one joins late expecting supplies. Once the task is done, there are no more reminders for that completed task.

Why it works

One clear agreementOne agreement per thread keeps this specific commitment separate from the rest of the conversation.
People choose the ownerAn unclaimed task is announced to the whole group. Nexy does not choose a person or assign it for you.
Done means no remindersA person who has already completed the task is left alone. Finishing is different from receiving another reminder.

Where it stops

Keep the agreement narrow and let the people involved make the decisions.

One agreement per threadUse this thread for the specific agreement, rather than treating it as an entire project.
No automatic assignmentNexy announces unclaimed tasks to the group; the people decide who will act.
No reminders after doneCompleted tasks are not a reason to keep reminding someone.

Questions people ask

What happens if someone confirms attendance but then cannot come?

Ask them to let you know as soon as possible if their plans change. If you have already ordered materials, you might have one extra set, which you could offer to someone else or keep for a future session. If the withdrawal happens before your order deadline, you can adjust the quantity. Make it clear when you first ask for confirmation that you need to know about any changes promptly because you are committing to a specific number of supply sets.

How much notice should I give people to confirm attendance?

Give at least one week if possible, especially if people need to rearrange other commitments to attend. State a clear day and time when confirmations must be in, and explain that this is the cut-off for ordering materials. If your workshop is on a Saturday, asking for confirmation by the previous Friday gives you the weekend to place an order. Shorter notice works if everyone already knows about the workshop and just needs to give a final yes or no.

Should I order extra materials in case more people want to join?

Only if you can afford the waste or will definitely use spare sets later. Ordering exactly the number confirmed avoids spending money on unused materials. If someone asks to join after you have ordered, explain that materials are already purchased for confirmed participants only. You can offer them a place at a future workshop instead. Some organisers add one spare set as a safety margin, but make clear during confirmation that late joiners cannot be accommodated.

What if several people have not confirmed by the deadline?

Send a brief reminder message to those specific people, stating that you need their answer by end of day or you will assume they are not attending. Explain that you are ordering materials and cannot include them unless they confirm. If they still do not reply, leave them out of your count. You can mention in your reminder that if they later want to attend, you may not have materials for them. This usually prompts a quick response.

How do I follow up with people who said maybe or probably?

Treat maybe as a no for ordering purposes unless they give a firm yes by your deadline. Send them a direct message explaining that you need a definite answer to order the right quantity of materials. Let them know that if they confirm yes and then cannot come, you will have an unused set, so you need genuine commitment. Most people will either commit or decline when they understand the practical consequence. A probably is not enough to spend money on supplies.

Can I ask people to pay a deposit to confirm attendance?

You can, and a deposit often encourages firm commitment because people have a financial stake. Explain when you ask for confirmation that a small deposit holds their place and covers the cost of their material set. Agree a date by which the deposit must be paid, and state clearly whether it is refundable if they cancel before your ordering deadline. Collecting money adds extra coordination, so only do this if no-shows or late cancellations have been a problem before.

What if I need to order materials several days before the confirmation deadline?

Move your confirmation deadline earlier so you have time to count responses and place the order. For example, if the supplier needs three days and you want to order on Tuesday, ask for confirmations by the previous Friday. Explain the timeline in your initial message so people understand why you need their answer sooner. Always build in a small buffer in case the supplier or delivery is delayed. Never wait until the last possible moment to order.

Should I confirm attendance separately for a multi-session workshop?

If people pay or commit once for all sessions, get one confirmation covering the whole series and order materials for everyone at the start. If each session is independent, confirm attendance before each one and order materials accordingly. For a series where people might drop out, consider asking for session-by-session confirmation if materials are expensive, but this creates more coordination work. Make clear at the outset whether signing up means committing to all sessions or just one at a time.

Do this with Nexy

Start free on the web. Tell Nexy what the two of you agreed on and it takes it from there: it asks, reminds whoever still has to act, and tells everyone when it is done.

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